The idea of end of life photography can be daunting. It’s likely you’ve heard of it or even seen the tear-jerking black-and-white photos on social media with heartfelt captions of people honoring their beloved furry best friends’ lives.

While difficult, end of life photography is an important aspect of both pet photography and pet-ownership. And by the end of this blog post, I hope you’ll walk away with a better understanding of what end of life pet photography is. And also–if you’re a pet-owner and in this tough season, wondering if you should book a session–I hope to persuade you that you absolutely need to.

What is an end of life photography session?

An end of life photography session is for pets who are nearing the end of their lives. It’s a way of honoring them by capturing last memories together. 

They’re usually shot in-home as that’s where most elderly and/or sick pets are typically more comfortable. Because you’ll want to capture them in their favorite sun-spot, or curled up on their usual couch cushion. 

Sometimes these sessions are even done at vets’ offices during euthanasia appointments if clients wish (this usually happens if last-minute and/or unexpected things occur).

Are end of life photography sessions necessary?

As an end of life pet photographer, I will always say yes to this question. Yes, I believe they’re a necessary and important part of the grieving and healing process. And anticipatory grief is still grief. 

Adding this to the process allows us to take any little control we have left over the situation and say, “I want to make one last memory with you, and celebrate you.” 

Most of my end of life session clients write back to me weeks after they receive their galleries, or after their pets pass, just to say how much the photos have helped them heal. And how just the simple act of looking back at a beautiful memory with their pup gives them peace. 

However, I recognize these sessions may not be of everyone’s interest. 

They’re hard. 

It’s hard to come to terms with losing our pets. It’s also hard to look them in the eyes and see all the years of love they’ve given, knowing we’ll soon be saying goodbye.

Should I do an end of life photography session?

It’s completely up to you. But, my honest advice is this:

If you’re blessed enough to be able to have the time to do one, just do it.

Things happen unexpectedly, and sometimes far too quickly. Sickness progresses, life happens, and schedules fill up. But if you can find one 45-minute break in your week, why not use it to honor your best friend in such a way that gives you memories and photos to last a lifetime?

There’s a healing process that comes with the grief of losing our best friend, and I’ve seen the way these photos help in that healing.

What is the Tilly Project?

The Tilly Project is an amazing networking platform that offers resources, education, and support for grieving families. They also connect people with photographers who provide end-of-life photography. 
I’m proud to be a featured photographer with The Tilly Project. You can read more about their work here.

How to handle emotional end of life sessions and what to expect

Plan a day out of it

There’s no way to truly prepare for an end-of-life session. But, it can be even more meaningful if you plan a day out of it.

The day could look like anything you want; you know your pet: a hike, an adventure, a McDonald’s trip, a romp around that one room of the house they aren’t allowed in…

I call my end of life sessions “Celebration-of-Life” sessions because I see them as just that: a celebration.

Let go of your expectations for end of life photography

I know– sounds like a contradiction, right? Considering the heading of this section, I’ll admit it sounds like it, too. But, what I mean is…

There is simply no way to know for sure how these sessions are going to go. There may be unexpected emotions, we may need to take a break, pets may not take to the camera right away, just to name a few. 

I’m well-versed in the unexpected and none of this bothers me. We will get through it together. But the last thing I want is for anyone to feel frustrated or unhappy about the day. So, I’ll do whatever I can to make everyone comfortable.

Focus on your pet, not the photo

While there is a set of standard shots and poses I capture during these sessions, I typically like to sit back. I’ll shoot while your family shares lots of hugs, kisses, pets, ear-scratches, etc. 

I know it’s difficult if not near-impossible to pretend I’m not there, but I want you to look and feel as natural as possible. It’s best if you focus on your pet and the love you have for them, giving them all the attention and vice-versa. Going into your session, know that my intentions are not to only capture face-on smiling photos but rather to capture the emotions and the hour moment-by-moment.

Okay, How do I book an end of life photography session?

You can request a session with me HERE, or you can shoot me a direct email at Loveleepaws@gmail.com. You can read more about my sessions and view some gallery photos HERE.

I will travel anywhere in New England, but if we are a bit out of range for you, you can also use the Tilly Project as a resource and search by country and state. 

As I always say, this work is not easy, but it is necessary. I love what I do and hope it shines through. And I pray you’ve found this post a helpful resource during this difficult time.